It is heartbreaking to realize that your physical safety has been compromised through the sexual behavior of your significant other. No one wants to ... Read More »
The Bus Crash Of Betrayal
For many betrayed partners it can feel unbelievable that in the aftermath of being cheated on, lied to, betrayed and traumatized you are now being ... Read More »
The Life I Never Wanted
How am I supposed to create a life I don’t want? This was a question that haunted me after my divorce. I had wanted so very much for my marriage to ... Read More »
Facing Grief After Betrayal
Discovering sexual betrayal plunges you into loss and grief. Suddenly you are faced with more losses than you can count. Loss of trust in your ... Read More »
Depersonalizing Sex Addiction … What????
You may have, somewhere along the way in your journey as the partner of a sex addict been told that you need to depersonalize the addiction. Most ... Read More »
Shame, Blame and Betrayal
Every betrayed partner I have ever worked with has talked about feeling like a fool when they found out about their significant other’s sexual ... Read More »
Betrayal: It’s Not Your Fault
Most betrayed partners carry the burden of the same secret fear: that it is some lack in them that has caused their significant other to seek sexual ... Read More »
Blocking Out Betrayal
Because the aftermath of discovering betrayal can be so emotionally overwhelming, one of the coping behaviors that many partners employ is to block ... Read More »
Connecting the Dots After Betrayal
After discovering betrayal, most partners typically experience a period where they are flooded with memories and emotions as they begin to connect the ... Read More »