After the discovery of betrayal, trained therapeutic support can help you and your partner address what has happened and determine what is needed ... Read More »
How to Get Support as a Couple After Betrayal
One of the things that I see happen with betrayed partners and their significant others post-discovery is that they enter therapy and are immediately ... Read More »
Making it Through the Hunker-Down
We take a break from our regular programming to bring you this special COVID-19 inspired blog post! Thank you, coronavirus. With the closing of ... Read More »
Rebuilding Safety After Betrayal: The Most Important Stage
Last week, we talked about the first two stages in the process of rebuilding safety after betrayal: getting help and getting honest. Many couples ... Read More »
The 3 Stages of Rebuilding Safety After Betrayal
The most significant need partners have in the aftermath of betrayal is for their sense of relational and emotional safety to be restored. ... Read More »
When “I’m Sorry” Doesn’t Mean “I’m Safe”
Perhaps you have had the following experience. Your cheating partner comes to you and gives you, with sincere feeling, clear regret, and obvious ... Read More »
Weathering No Man’s Land, Part 2
The stretch of desert called no man’s land feels intolerable for betrayed partners. Nevertheless, the inherent manner in which healing betrayal trauma ... Read More »
Weathering No Man’s Land, Part I
When betrayed partners first enter treatment they are often mid-trauma. There is no post-traumatic stress; instead, they are dealing with ongoing ... Read More »
