In my previous post, I introduced the idea that betrayed partners often find it helpful to stop talking and start observing. Simply stated, when you ... Read More »
Lesson #2, Part 1: Learning to Stop Talking and Start Observing After Betrayal
We are in the middle of a series where I am sharing with you the key lessons I learned as I earned my way out of my relationship with my sexually ... Read More »
Lesson #1: Stepping Out of the Cheater’s Gaslighting Game, Part 2
Hear ye, hear ye betrayed partners. Gaslighting does not just happen to you, and it does not just stop happening and then you are fine. Gaslighting is ... Read More »
Lesson #1: Stepping Out of the Cheater’s Gaslighting Game, Part 1
Gaslighting is a systematic and chronic pattern of manipulation and lying that betrayed partners experience when cheaters work to hide their ... Read More »
How to Help Yourself With Gaslighting
Most betrayed partners experience all four types of gaslighting from their cheating partner: lying, reality-manipulation, scapegoating, and coercion. ... Read More »
The Impact of Gaslighting
Gaslighting is the systematic and chronic manipulation and lying that betrayed partners often experience. If you've been following along with me on ... Read More »
The Four Types of Gaslighting Behaviors: Part 2
In last week’s post we defined gaslighting as the systematic and chronic manipulation and lying that betrayed partners experience at the hands of the ... Read More »
The Four Types of Gaslighting Behaviors: Part 1
A couple of months ago, Rob Weiss invited me to come on his podcast for a chat with him. One of the things we talked about was gaslighting and I ... Read More »
Listening To Your Gut
For many betrayed partners, the adage about hindsight being 20/20 feels very true. They look back after discovering infidelity and see so clearly all ... Read More »
