Sexual betrayal is a relational trauma that impacts our sense of safety, trust, and security with our significant other. Relational traumas involve ... Read More »
Three Trauma Traps of Partner Betrayal: Powerlessness, Fear, and Shame
Welcome to the next post in our series about mindset. So far, we have looked at the importance of mindset in determining the reality we live in and ... Read More »
Overcoming Power-Over Dynamics in Your Relationship
This is the fourth posting in our look at the power-over power-under dynamics that often take place in relationships where cheating has occurred. In ... Read More »
Power-Over Dynamics: Coming to Awareness
In my last two posts, we looked at the power-over power-under dynamics that often take place in relationships where cheating has occurred. Cheating ... Read More »
Power-Over Dynamics and Betrayed Partners
In last week’s post, we talked about how the cheating partner’s secrets and lies put that partner in a one-up, power-over position in the ... Read More »
Betrayal is Dehumanizing
Betrayal is dehumanizing. Over the years, I have sat with countless betrayed partners while they’ve struggled to put into words the profound loss ... Read More »
How to Stop Giving Your Power Away
In the aftermath of betrayal, giving away your personal power by hustling for worthiness and offending from the victim position can become amplified ... Read More »
Are You Giving Away Your Personal Power?
We are in the middle of a series where I am sharing with you the key lessons I learned as I earned my way out of my relationship with my sexually ... Read More »
Shame, Blame and Betrayal
Every betrayed partner I have ever worked with has talked about feeling like a fool when they found out about their significant other’s sexual ... Read More »
