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Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S

Michelle Mays is a Licensed Professional Counselor and expert in treating sexual betrayal and trauma. She is the author of the new book The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst and she is the founder of the Center for Relational Recovery in Northern Virginia outside of DC.

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Bruce Butler, LPC, CSAT

Bruce is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Virginia. He is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and is also in the process of completing his certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples.

Bruce specializes in working with couples who are struggling with issues such as communication problems, betrayal or infidelity, and sexual addiction. Bruce works from an attachment perspective helping couples to create emotional safety, deep bonding and connection within the relationship.

Bruce received his Masters in Counseling in 2010 from Liberty University. He is a member of the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals, the Northern Virginia Licensed Professional Counselors Association, the American Association of Christian Counselors, and the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy.

Tonia Manning

Meet Tonia Manning, a dynamic and compassionate woman thriving in the vibrant community of Northern Virginia. As a dedicated mother, Tonia has navigated the joys and challenges of raising her (almost grown) children, finding fulfillment in every stage of their development. Her nurturing spirit extends beyond her family as she works as a certified life coach, specializing in supporting betrayed partners. With a heart full of empathy and a wealth of life experiences, Tonia has dedicated her career to helping individuals navigate the challenging journey of healing and rebuilding after betrayal.

With a 30 year background as a nurse, Tonia brings a unique blend of empathy and expertise to her coaching practice. Her profound understanding of human relationships, coupled with her healthcare background, allows her to guide individuals through the complexities of healing, rebuilding trust and connecting to oneself.

When sheโ€™s not providing invaluable support to PartnerHope clients, Tonia finds solace and joy in the great outdoors. Whether itโ€™s hiking scenic trails, exploring local parks, or simply enjoying the changing seasons, she embraces the beauty that Northern Virginia has to offer. Her love for nature is only rivaled by her affection for her four-legged companion, a loyal dog, who accompanies her on many adventures and adds warmth and joy to her daily life.

Aaron Tempel, LCPC, CSAT

Aaron is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, National Certified Counselor, and Attachment-Focused EMDR trained clinician. He enjoys working with those struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors, attachment wounds and trauma, anxiety and shame, as well as menโ€™s issues and healthy sexual functioning.

Aaron has experience working in both inpatient and outpatient treatment centers. His focus of work is on the therapeutic relationship with his clients, allowing them space to be seen and accepted, experiencing joy, loss, and disappointment with them, all the while teaching skills to enhance and improve their lives.

Angela Cook

Angela Cook is the Business Operations Manager for the Center of Relational Recovery and Braving Hopeยฎ. With a remarkable track record of over 15 years in Operations Management and Leadership, Angela is a driving force behind the teamโ€™s success. She is highly skilled in motivating individuals to envision and execute their goals, and she shares her gift freely with her colleagues and the clients she interacts with during Braving Hopeยฎ Clarity Calls. Her commitment to excellence and her empathetic approach ensure that each connection is not just a call, but a transformative experience in their journey towards healing and empowerment.

Angela holds a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from Radford University. She currently resides in Winchester, Virginia where she enjoys time with her husband (Mike), cat (DK), and 2 dogs (Chip, a German Shepherd, and Bella, an Olde English Bulldog).

Kristen Smith

Kristen Smith is an artist, teacher, coach and mother. Kristen is a professional potter with over 20 years experience creating beautiful works of art in her studio and 13 years teaching pottery in Kennesaw Georgia. Kristen also has experience providing elder-care and worked in an assisted-living facility during the Covid-19 pandemic caring for those who could not access their loved ones and needed support. Kristen is a Clarity Call Coach for the Braving Hopeยฎ coaching program offering care and support to each individual she talks to who is reaching out for guidance and direction during a critical moment of need.

Kristen lives in Georgia with her husband and his luxurious beard, her two rockstar children and two weird cats.

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The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Hurts You the Worst

Michelle Mays’ new book introduces language, concepts, and imagery to explore the crucial relational dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect to, yet connection is the key to healing.

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Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. are the owners of all intellectual property rights in the Sexuality & Recovery Online Workshop Series and all parts thereof including all copyrights and trademarks. I understand that by accessing and/or downloading the Sexuality & Recovery Online Workshop Series or any part thereof that I may not sell, share, lend, copy, duplicate, or email the Sexuality & Recovery Online Workshop Series or any part thereof to any other individual including clinicians, other professionals or lay persons.

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I understand that the Sexuality & Recovery Online Workshop Series is designed to be used in conjunction with individual and coupleโ€™s therapy. I understand that The Sexuality & Recovery Online Workshop Series is not a substitute for psychotherapy and participants in the workshop are not clients of Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, or Relational Recovery Inc., unless a separate therapeutic relationship has been established.

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In no event will Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. be liable for any consequential, indirect, incidental, or special damages resulting from any claim (including any cause of action sounding in contract, tort, negligence, strict liability or products liability) arising out of the use by you of the Sexuality & Recovery Online Workshop Series even if Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. have been advised of the possibility of such damages. The maximum liability of Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. to you for any cause whatsoever will be no greater than the price paid to Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. under this agreement for the Sexuality & Recovery Online Workshop Series or any part thereof. The foregoing limitations and exclusions apply to the extent permitted by applicable law.

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I understand that the Foundations for Recovery Online Workshop is not a substitute for psychotherapy and participants in the workshop are not clients of Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, or Relational Recovery Inc., unless a separate client relationship has been established.

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In no event will Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. be liable for any consequential, indirect, incidental, or special damages resulting from any claim (including any cause of action sounding in contract, tort, negligence, strict liability or products liability) arising out of the use by you of the Foundations for Recovery Online Workshop even if Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. have been advised of the possibility of such damages. The maximum liability of Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. to you for any cause whatsoever will be no greater than the price paid to Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. under this agreement for the Foundations for Recovery Online Workshop or any part thereof. The foregoing limitations and exclusions apply to the extent permitted by applicable law.

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I agree to indemnify Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery Inc. from any and all judgments, liability, damages, penalties, losses and expense (including reasonable attorneysโ€™ fees) which may be suffered or assumed by or obtained against Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc, their successors, licensees, and assigns that may occur as a result of my download, or use of the Foundations for Recovery Online Workshop or any part thereof.

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Limitation of Liability

In no event will Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. be liable for any consequential, indirect, incidental, or special damages resulting from any claim (including any cause of action sounding in contract, tort, negligence, strict liability or products liability) arising out of the use by you of the Reframing “Codependency” Online Workshop even if Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. have been advised of the possibility of such damages. The maximum liability of Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. to you for any cause whatsoever will be no greater than the price paid to Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. under this agreement for the Reframing “Codependency” Online Workshop or any part thereof. The foregoing limitations and exclusions apply to the extent permitted by applicable law.

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I agree to indemnify Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery Inc. from any and all judgments, liability, damages, penalties, losses and expense (including reasonable attorneysโ€™ fees) which may be suffered or assumed by or obtained against Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc, their successors, licensees, and assigns that may occur as a result of my download, or use of the Reframing “Codependency” Online Workshop or any part thereof.

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I understand that the Healing & Reparenting the Wounded Child Within Online Workshop is designed to be used in conjunction with individual therapy. I understand that the Healing & Reparenting the Wounded Child Within Online Workshop is not a substitute for psychotherapy and participants in the workshop are not clients of Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, or Relational Recovery Inc., unless a separate client relationship has been established.

Limitation of Liability

In no event will Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. be liable for any consequential, indirect, incidental, or special damages resulting from any claim (including any cause of action sounding in contract, tort, negligence, strict liability or products liability) arising out of the use by you of the Healing & Reparenting the Wounded Child Within Online Workshop even if Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. have been advised of the possibility of such damages. The maximum liability of Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. to you for any cause whatsoever will be no greater than the price paid to Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc. under this agreement for the Healing & Reparenting the Wounded Child Within Online Workshop or any part thereof. The foregoing limitations and exclusions apply to the extent permitted by applicable law.

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I agree to indemnify Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery Inc. from any and all judgments, liability, damages, penalties, losses and expense (including reasonable attorneysโ€™ fees) which may be suffered or assumed by or obtained against Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, and/or Relational Recovery, Inc, their successors, licensees, and assigns that may occur as a result of my download, or use of the Healing & Reparenting the Wounded Child Within Online Workshop or any part thereof.

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I understand that the Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Workshop is designed to be used in conjunction with individual and coupleโ€™s therapy. I understand that by accessing and/or downloading the Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Workshop or any part thereof that I may not utilize any part of the material to attempt to do disclosure without trained therapeutic support, presence and guidance.

The Disclosure Prep Workshop is not a substitute for psychotherapy and participants in the workshop are not clients of Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC or Relational Recovery Inc., unless a separate therapeutic or coaching relationship has been established.

Limitation of Liability

In no event will Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, Relational Recovery, Inc. and/or Relational Recovery Press, LLC be liable for any consequential, indirect, incidental, or special damages resulting from any claim (including any cause of action sounding in contract, tort, negligence, strict liability or products liability) arising out of the use by you of the Disclosure Prep Workshop even if Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, Relational Recovery, Inc. and/or Relational Recovery Press, LLC have been advised of the possibility of such damages. The maximum liability of Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, Relational Recovery, Inc. and/or Relational Recovery Press, LLC to you for any cause whatsoever will be no greater than the price paid to Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, Relational Recovery, Inc. and/or Relational Recovery Press, LLC under this agreement for the Disclosure Prep Workshop or any part thereof. The foregoing limitations and exclusions apply to the extent permitted by applicable law.

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I agree to indemnify Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, Relational Recovery Inc., and Relational Recovery Press LLC from any and all judgments, liability, damages, penalties, losses and expense (including reasonable attorneysโ€™ fees) which may be suffered or assumed by or obtained against Michelle Mays, PartnerHope, LLC, Relational Recovery, Inc, and Relational Recovery Press LLC, their successors, licensees, and assigns that may occur as a result of my download, or use of the Disclosure Prep Workshop or any part thereof.

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