Healing from Betrayal Trauma Wanting it More Podcast

In this episode of the Wanting it More (Doing It Together) Podcast, Janna speaks with Michelle Mays – author, innovator and counselor with over 20 years of experience treating sexual betrayal and trauma.

• Janna talks about discovering a 14-year betrayal in her marriage and Michelle shares her own betrayal story.
• Reasons why partner betrayal is so complex compared to other forms of trauma.
• The stories of rationalization, minimization and justification used by cheating partners to make their behaviour ok.
• The lying, manipulation, scapegoating and gaslighting experienced by partners during the discovery of betrayal.
• The cycle of shame that comes with wanting to simultaneously connect and disconnect from a cheating partner
• The vital importance of restoring the relationship with oneself after experiencing partner betrayal.

“Wanting it More is the podcast for women, married to men, who feel like sex is a chore. With massive to-do lists, husband expectations and constant stress, it’s no wonder that so many of us find sex to be a challenge!”