In this episode of “Success Leaves Clues,” hosted by Dustin Plantholt, listeners can expect an enthralling conversation with Michelle Mays, an esteemed author known for her groundbreaking work on partner betrayal. Michelle dives deep into the inspiration behind her book, “The Betrayal Bind,” sharing her personal journey of overcoming betrayal in her twenties due to a partner’s sexual addiction. This profound experience led her to explore the field of betrayal and develop a new model for treating it in adult relationships.
Throughout the episode, Michelle and Dustin discuss the significance of communication and personal growth in relationships, emphasizing that successful relationships require both partners to commit to ongoing personal development and open, honest dialogue. Michelle also highlights the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, explaining how early attachments shape our expectations and interactions with others.
Listeners will gain insights into the challenges and rewards of relationships, the importance of being willing to ask for help, and the role of technology in modern relationships. Michelle offers valuable advice on how to navigate and grow through the inevitable challenges that life brings to relationships, advocating for a mindset of continuous learning and openness.
The episode also touches on the transformative process couples must undergo to rebuild trust and create a new relationship after infidelity, underscoring the necessity of addressing the underlying issues and truly committing to change.
Join Dustin and Michelle for a thought-provoking discussion that promises to leave listeners with practical advice and a deeper understanding of how to cultivate healthy, fulfilling relationships.
Michelle Mays is a Licensed Professional Counselor and expert in treating sexual betrayal and trauma. She’s also the author of the new book The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Hurts You the Worst. Michelle has created a new treatment model to address the devastating dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect to, yet connection is the key to healing.
