This week I would like to introduce all of you to a colleague of mine named Kelly McDaniel. Kelly is a Licensed Professional Counselor and ... Read More »
Becoming The Hero of Your Betrayal Story
In last weekโs post, we talked about the way that life often presents us with unsought challenges that almost always have a hidden possibility within ... Read More »
Betrayal Requires Relational Recovery
If the significant wound of betrayal happens in relationship (and betrayal is always relational), then it makes sense that our healing and restoration ... Read More »
Betrayal: The Heartshot of Relational Trauma
Over the past five years or so, betrayal trauma has started to enter our lexicon and be used in our everyday language. When I founded the Center for ... Read More »
The Dynamic, Multi-Dimensional Nature of Partner Betrayal Trauma
In my previous two posts, we deepened our understanding of complex trauma, primarily focusing on the fact that when relational betrayal occurs, the ... Read More »
Complex Partner Betrayal Trauma & Relational Disconnection
In last weekโs post, I introduced the concept of complex trauma, which Christine Courtois defines as โtraumatic stressors that are interpersonal, that ... Read More »
Complex Partner Betrayal Trauma & Emotional Dysregulation
Partner betrayal trauma makes you feel like you are losing your mind. It puts you on an emotional rack and pulls you in opposite directions until you ... Read More »
Betrayal Trauma: The Worst-Case Scenarioย
The other day, someone asked, โWhat is the worst-case scenario for someone going through betrayal trauma?โ Iโd never been asked this very interesting ... Read More »
Betrayal Trauma: The Potential For Healing
Last week we looked at the ways in which the women and men who are speaking up on social media and in the news about the sexual abuse they have ... Read More »




















