In this series of posts, we are exploring the way in which betrayal creates traumatic responses that impact our body, brains and minds. We are ... Read More »
5 Building Blocks to Understanding Betrayal Trauma, Part 2
In this series of posts, we are exploring the way in which betrayal creates traumatic responses that impact our body, brains and minds. We are ... Read More »
5 Building Blocks to Understanding Betrayal Trauma, Part 1
When we experience danger, stress or trauma our threat response system fires up and moves us to toward fight, flight or freeze. However, because ... Read More »
When Your Cheating Partner is Not Sexual with You
Sexual betrayal always creates a sexual injury for betrayed partners. This injury can be mild to severe and can be experienced in many ways. But, ... Read More »
Why Disclosure Takes So Long & Why It’s Worth the Wait, Part 5
Part Five: Disclosure Itself is a Process In my previous posts on why the disclosure process sometimes takes so long, we discussed the fact that ... Read More »
Why Disclosure Takes So Long & Why It’s Worth the Wait, Part 4
Part Four: Your Partner Needs to Get Honest In my previous posts on why the disclosure process sometimes takes so long, we discussed assessment of ... Read More »
Why Disclosure Takes So Long & Why It’s Worth the Wait, Part 3
Part Three: Your Partner Needs to Fully Stop the Cheating In my previous posts on why the disclosure process sometimes takes so long, we discussed ... Read More »
Why Disclosure Takes So Long & Why It’s Worth the Wait, Part 2
Part Two: Your Partner Needs to Break Through Denial In last week’s post, we began a discussion about why full therapeutic disclosure often takes ... Read More »
Why Disclosure Takes So Long & Why It’s Worth the Wait, Part 1
Part One: Your Cheating Partner Needs to Be Assessed As a betrayed partner, you have a very real need for full disclosure. I want to start by ... Read More »