Everybody is called at some point (and most of us are called several times throughout life) to go through something so challenging we think it will ... Read More »
These Are a Few of My Favorite Things (2020 Edition)
It’s Christmas and if you are like me it’s shaping up to be quite different this year. I’ve got a zoom gift exchange planned with friends who live ... Read More »
The Power of a Group
There is something magical that happens when a group comes together around a common problem and commits to a shared vision and purpose. When that ... Read More »
What Does it Mean to Brave Hope?
One of my favorite moments as a therapist is when new clients come into my office and tell me their story. As I listen, I begin to see in my mind’s ... Read More »
How to Stop Giving Your Power Away
In the aftermath of betrayal, giving away your personal power by hustling for worthiness and offending from the victim position can become amplified ... Read More »
Are You Giving Away Your Personal Power?
We are in the middle of a series where I am sharing with you the key lessons I learned as I earned my way out of my relationship with my sexually ... Read More »
Making it Through the Hunker-Down
We take a break from our regular programming to bring you this special COVID-19 inspired blog post! Thank you, coronavirus. With the closing of ... Read More »
To Stay or Leave After Cheating: Earning a New Relationship
Several months after divorcing my sexually addicted spouse, I was talking to the clinical supervisor overseeing my Residency to become a Licensed ... Read More »
Why Cheaters Cheat, Part 3: Sexualized Dependency Needs
One of the most compelling issues underlying infidelity is the way in which cheaters’ self-perception and feelings change in the moment of sexually ... Read More »
