Part Four: Your Partner Needs to Get Honest In my previous posts on why the disclosure process sometimes takes so long, we discussed assessment of ... Read More »
Why Disclosure Takes So Long & Why It’s Worth the Wait: Has the Cheating Stopped?
Part Three: Your Partner Needs to Fully Stop the Cheating In my previous posts on why the disclosure process sometimes takes so long, we discussed ... Read More »
Why Disclosure Takes So Long & Why It’s Worth the Wait: Breaking Through Denial
Part Two: Your Partner Needs to Break Through Denial In last weekโs post, we began a discussion about why full therapeutic disclosure often takes ... Read More »
Why Disclosure Takes So Long & Why It’s Worth the Wait, Part 1
Part One: The Acting-Out Partner Needs to Be Assessed As a betrayed partner, you have a very real need for full disclosure. I want to start by ... Read More »
The 5 Reasons You Need to Educate Yourself About Sex Addiction
Many betrayed partners start down the road of dealing with cheating in their relationship only to at some point begin to realize that their ... Read More »
Is My Partner A Sex Addict (or Not)?
Betrayed partners often ask me, โHow do I know if my partner is a sex addict?โ Usually, they are looking at the pattern of sexual behavior involved in ... Read More »
Why Disclosure Does Not Heal the Pain of Betrayal – And What Does
At the Relational Recovery Institute, we will occasionally have couples call asking to do disclosure with us. We walk them through the disclosure ... Read More »
What Disclosure Can (and Can’t) Do for Your Relationship After Betrayal
Disclosure. Just the word is freighted with questions, anxiety, hopes and fears. For couples dealing with infidelity and betrayal, completing ... Read More »
How to Get Support as a Couple After Betrayal
One of the things that I see happen with betrayed partners and their significant others post-discovery is that they enter therapy and are immediately ... Read More »




















