Today’s blog is written not just for you as a betrayed partner, but for your therapists, your pastors, your friends and family members, your 12-Step ... Read More »
Is There a Short-Cut to Heal from Betrayal Trauma?
One of the biggest things to expect as you begin to recover from betrayal trauma is that your healing will happen as a process. By definition, ... Read More »
The Temptation to Make Big Decisions Fast
Humans do not like uncertainty. We like a clear direction. An arrow pointing the way. A road that is paved and marked with bright yellow stripes ... Read More »
Should I Cut My Losses?
“Should I cut my losses and leave now?” If you’ve asked this question, you’re not alone. Many if not most betrayed partners wrestle with thoughts ... Read More »
Am I Staying Forever?
After discovery of infidelity, betrayed partners often feel pressured to make a black and white decision about leaving or staying in their ... Read More »
Stay or Leave: Permission to Not Know
In the immediate aftermath of discovering betrayal, emotions run high for both the betrayed partner and the offending partner. There is chaos and ... Read More »
To Stay or To Go: That is the Complicated Question
One of the biggest issues facing individuals whose relationships have been damaged by a partner’s infidelity is the decision to stay in or leave their ... Read More »
Misplaced Anger After Betrayal
If I had a nickel for every betrayed partner who has told me a horror story about contacting the cheater’s affair partner, I could buy myself and ... Read More »
What To Expect From Your Cheating Partner at the Beginning of Recovery: The Good News
If your partner is taking his need for help seriously and is fully committing to a process of recovery, there are certain things you can expect to see ... Read More »
