A few weeks ago, we began a conversation about sex after betrayal. In my first post on this topic we discussed how some betrayed partners experience ... Read More »
When You Become an Acting Out Partner But Don’t Know It, Part 1
This week we are going to talk about a phenomenon that is most frequently experienced by partners of sex addicts, though individuals dealing with ... Read More »
No Sex for You
Last week we started a conversation about sex after betrayal. We talked about how healing the sexual injuries created by sexual betrayal is one of the ... Read More »
Sex After Betrayal
What is the least addressed topic when dealing with sexual betrayal? The topic that is often left completely out of couple’s therapy? The topic that ... Read More »
How to Help Yourself With Gaslighting
Most betrayed partners experience all four types of gaslighting from their cheating partner: lying, reality-manipulation, scapegoating, and coercion. ... Read More »
The Impact of Gaslighting
Gaslighting is the systematic and chronic manipulation and lying that betrayed partners often experience. If you've been following along with me on ... Read More »
The Four Types of Gaslighting Behaviors: Part 2
In last week’s post we defined gaslighting as the systematic and chronic manipulation and lying that betrayed partners experience at the hands of the ... Read More »
The Four Types of Gaslighting Behaviors: Part 1
A couple of months ago, Rob Weiss invited me to come on his podcast for a chat with him. One of the things we talked about was gaslighting and I ... Read More »
Validating Your Feelings
We are not quite done with the topic of feelings. There is one more big kindness that you can show yourself around your feelings, and when you do it, ... Read More »